may 2016, 34 weeks - photo by Alanna Story
My
first Mother's Day was a dream. Being in the hospital isn't real out of the ordinary for us, & as an added benefit I got breakfast, lunch AND dinner in bed. ;) Family.
Gifts. Togetherness. What a beautiful day.
I
am so thankful that this year I was able to celebrate Mother's Day with my own
son. Something that I dreamt about, but wasn't quite positive would ever be a
reality for me. Having CF you grow up hearing "you probably won't have
kids", & the truth of how extremely difficult/rare it is to get
pregnant.
I
always knew I wanted a family, but what I pictured my family unit being was
unknown. Me with a husband? Me being a "favorite auntie" to everyone
kids that I knew? Maybe I'd marry somebody who already had kids. Maybe I'd make
a career out of being a nanny and helping raise kids that way. Would our family
and hearts be fulfilled through adoption? Maybe surrogacy? Any way it happened,
I knew I would be happy with, but this year I am just grateful that I was able
to celebrate all together.
Whichever
way your motherly roles are fulfilled; I hope you were able to feel the special
honor during this holiday.
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